What to do on my first night!
“Love has the power of making you believe what you would normally treat with the deepest suspicion.” – Mirabeau
The wedding season is already here and every couple is excited as well as scared about their first night. I hope none of you want to spend your first night just sleeping or just talking! Okay! Talking can be exempted because that’s how you develop the emotions in you and your partner but then what after that? You’ve been waiting for this moment since forever and you just don’t want to let it pass by so easily, so what to do to spice it up? Let me guide you with it:
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Guess the word: Games could be a way to make your first night a little special and naughty as well. If your partner is one of the brainy kinds then play the word-porn game with them. Make chits of a few words like strip, kiss etc. and ask the other one to chose any one of it. The only condition is that they have to do it no matter what. So for example: Strip- then ask your partner to take off one of the garments that they are wearing- for guys it could be their shirt to begin with and for girls jewelry. Add spice by helping each other in stripping. Your little touches can help you do miracles later in the night.
You can also try bottle-spin or blind fold games. But our first preference remains the chit game as others requires you both to be open enough with each other.
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Match their steps: Sometimes romantic music can either make everything better or can make things worse. For girls, romantic music might increase their heartbeats leading up to nothing but sleep. However, there is a way to deal with it. The moment she comes into the room, go down on your knees and ask her for a dance. The moment she says yes, grab her through her waist and on the beats of the music tap the seductive side of hers’. Let your whispers and breath play the subtle game of love. This move would not only make her come closer to you but would also make her comfortable.
Talk-it-out: One of the simplest yet the best way to know each other in a better and closer way is to talk. Now, you may ask why would anyone want to talk on the first night of their marriage, well if you choose wise words then she might not be uncomfortable with you and would love to get cozy. Share your first crush stories, best school day, first time watching porn experience, whatever you feel she would want to know and you are comfortable to share on the very first day. If you write poems or couplets, then awe her with your talent or make her laugh while showcasing your bathroom singing.
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>Bathe to share the compassion: Some of you might be worried that what if your partner dozes off to sleep when you go for a bath? Well, we always believe that after words, the better and the sexier way to express your feelings would be to touch, so we highly recommend you to invite your partner in the shower. It is completely okay if she is uncomfortable to undress and same goes for you; just let your body get completely wet and hug each other. After you come out of the shower, allow your partner to undress you and you do the same. Start to caress the neck, sides of the abdomen and then rest, you make your own way!
Take a drive: We understand that marriages are very tiring and one cannot even walk after the long process. However, your first night together comes only once. So, convince your partner to take you for a drive. Take her on a beautiful date that you have pre-set up to surprise her.Spend some romantic moments together and express your pleasure of being beside them. Choose a location which has an absolutely stunning view because if the view is romantic then things would turn much more into your favor.
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These are a few ways which would make your first night sweet and sexy. If you have some other ideas then please do write to us at kiara@oneworldnews.in till then wait for my next topic. (*wink*)
