WHEN THEY BETRAY YOU, YOU FEEL PAIN & RAGE, MAKE RASH DECISIONS, & WHEN THAT HAPPENS, YOU ONLY THINK ABOUT TAKING REVENGE
Cheating is obviously hurting you, there is no doubt about that, but, getting revenge on an ex or current partner who cheated on you is childish and unnecessary because you’re just lowering yourself to their level whether you believe it or not.
But, first things first, are you really sure they cheated on you? And, will you be able to prove their guilt when things go wrong or if your revenge backfires? If you’re not certain that they cheated, or you only want to get back at them based on loosely-conceived notions, then you’ll end up hurting yourself and probably end up destroying the other person’s life for no reason.
It is completely normal for you to feel extremely angry due to their cheating. You should thoroughly assess the situation and once you’re sure they actually, truthfully, and knowingly cheated on you, then you will be justified to have that sweet revenge.
Following are the sophisticated ways listed below to take sweet revenge which will successfully drive them crazy.
ADVANCE YOUR LIFE
Don’t just live your life well but also let them know how much you’re enjoying it. The best revenge you can take is living well and then it is important to make sure that the person responsible for it knows just how well you’re living. Try to live your life as if what happened didn’t affect you at all or your mental and emotional health. Remember, you have to love yourself more than you hate them.
NOT A BREAK-UP BUT GET A REVENGE BODY
Dealing with heartbreak isn’t exactly the easiest thing to do so to release anger, hit the gym because that’s what your body needs. It doesn’t matter how good of a person you are but the after a breakup, you may want to do everything to get back at your ex, and making them jealous is one way to do to remind them just how good you can look after the break-up and what they have lost.
DO WHAT YOU ALWAYS WANTED TO DO
Remember that one of the best ways to get revenge on an ex is to do whatever you wanted to do all this time. You can go on a trip you always talk about or take that class you’ve been promising yourself you would try. This is your time to shine. Even if your ex doesn’t notice how fabulous your life is without them, at least you’ll be living life the way you have always wanted.
DO SOMETHING WHICH IS AWARD-WINNING
Do things by which you can showcase your talent and hey …if it worked, then just like Sam Smith and Adele, (you never know) you may be another face in the stardom. You can win an award for best YouTube/Instagram video or something.
TAKE CARE OF YOURSELF ‘EMOTIONALLY’
You must engage yourself in hobbies that are really cool such as traveling, singing, or meditation to help you heal spiritually. Laugh, even if you have to pretend in front of others and do things that make your spirit feel better because the thing is that your ex is expecting you to be hurt. So, you cannot give them the satisfaction of being hurt anymore and try to stay cool.
DO A COMPLETE MAKEOVER
After your partner cheats on you, you may not pay attention to yourself but try not to give them (your ex/partner who cheated on you) this satisfaction and instead, make yourself smoking hot. Get your hair, nails, makeup, and other assets done because when you look & feel better, your ex will go nuts with jealousy. You can also take your best friend’s help and ask him to cheer you up by going out with him/her, either on a date or on a vacation. Also, wear your hottest clothes and make sure your photos with your friend end up on social media which will mess up your ex or partner.
FOCUS ON YOUR CAREER
This is something which you should concentrate on to shape your life. If you will earn more, you can spend that new money on things that will make you feel better. Here is your chance to update the life that you have always wanted. You can now have time to work hard and save up for a huge trip, finishing your education, or any other major goal of yours. It may doesn’t sound like a great way to get revenge, but the fact is your ex will HATE that you are doing well financially.
GET RID OF ALL THE MEMORIES
Get rid of all the gifts they have given you and make sure they know it because if the person who gave you all these gifts has no meaning to you and wronged you for no reason, then obviously, the gift has no value. Takedown all the pictures, even from social media, and when the word gets out, the reaction of this may drive them wild, but they will still try to play it cool. You can also remove or block them from your accounts because the less they see of you, the more they will wonder about you.
KEEP THE DIRTY SECRETS
Just remember, many times people fight ugly but you can fight the fire with your own fire. Some things you may say or do may end up biting you in the ass later on so if you do something against your ex or current partner, don’t throw it away because they won’t.
LET KARMA HANDLE EVERYTHING
You can call it revenge or justice or karma, but the fact is your ex or current partner who betrayed you will get what’s coming to them and if they deserve to be punished, they will be punished, period. So, don’t get in the way of the natural order of justice and let karma or God take care of the past and you of course.
However, one thing you have to understand is that if your ex did anything illegal, you should consider talking to the police or someone you can trust even if it is about pressing charges. Revenge has its own beauty and forgiveness doesn’t mean your ex should get away with illegal or immoral actions.