Motivational speaker Gaur Gopal Das & Sandeep Maheshwari Share their way of bringing Change in life.
Do you seek Change in life? You may be having your dream job, six figures salary, or a happening relationship. But these
If you look around, there is always someone connected to your life who grew up in a similar time, place, and situation. But they managed to change their life for the better.
But how did they manage to succeed? Is it so easy to change yourself?
The answer is undoubtedly no. Change requires getting out of your comfort zone, which is easy for some people.
However, not many know how to achieve it.
Therefore, we have brought for you some expert advice to attain this Change in life.
Gaur Gopal Das, a former engineer turned motivational guru shared his 3 valuable pieces of advice.
Do not torture, torment, and burden yourself with excessive regret for your past mistake. Ladies & gentlemen, we all make mistakes. Don’t be too harsh to yourself and keep punishing, tormenting yourself for what has already been done and cannot be undone.
Do not believe anything against common sense unless you have first-hand proof. Learn your lessons & move on. Be sharp, be smart. Don’t evaluate things by face value. Use your reason and discretion before accepting and trusting something or someone.
Lastly, if you are not applying what you already know, there is no point in being so intent on getting what you do not know. You are not ready for more if you do not digest what you have received by applying it. Life gives you more only when you use what you have rightly.
“Knowledge and makeup are like makeup. Bothe do well when they are applied. One changes the way you look, and the other the way you live”- Gaur Gopal Das.
Motivation Speaker Sandeep, who managed to change his life, now determined to change many, also shared tips for Change in life.
There is one constant thing in this whole world, and that is Change. Whether it’s relationship, health, or career, ups and downs are part of the life system. You may have a very sorted love life, but that does not mean it will be rainbows day after day. Some days will be gloomy.
People tend to worry even if their external life is quite a smooth sail. Therefore, it is mandatory to follow specific tips for Change in life.
Suffering cannot be avoided
You can’t run away from suffering, but you can definitely find meaning in sufferings as they are in your control.
Motivational Speaker Sandeep Maheshwari explains the concept more subtly.
“If you are not working on your body, you will suffer from many health problems. However, suppose you are working on it by hitting the gym or doing any workout. In that case, the process also possesses suffering but for the better. It will always be your call which one you prefer. The larger one, or prepare yourself for the larger one by enduring the smaller”.
Khushi requires efforts
Study shows that our brain develops specific patterns when something happens to us. Our experience includes emotions. And whenever similar events occur, the set patterns trigger in the brain.
The research says that we may not feel happy or lucky for many days whenever something pretty happens to us. On the contrary, a bad experience affects us for a longer period.
Therefore, Khushi requires effort and a belief that there is hope.
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Affirmations are not for weak people. It is practiced daily by the strong ones. Make some solid positive affirmations for yourself.
Avoid negative affirmations
Have you ever realized the importance of ‘Shubh Shubh bolo’? The old saying guides you to be positive and avoid using negative words.
By default, we use negative affirmations right from the beginning of the day.
‘Are Yarr Monday Hai Aaj kaam Karna padega!’, ‘Aaj ka din hi bahut bekar Hai’- all these negative sentences affect your mood and thinking pattern.
Practicing these things daily will direct your life in a different direction. Remember, Change doesn’t take place overnight. It requires effects and that too positive one.