It is all about the secret meetings only without any attachments
Hooking up with someone for one night of sex without any string attachments and hoping to never see them again is called one night stand. Be sure and it’s really important not to exchange any personal info with them so they can’t track you down and stalk you later. Well, one-night stands are believed a very dirty, taboo concept in India and most parts of the world even today. This generation has seen everything like, love, lust and sex together.
Here is how it has completely changed the society’s thought process
No String Attach Culture:-
The hookup culture has been on the rise for the past several years. Sometimes after you’ve partied hard and are a few drinks down, you can be with a stranger and can have sex. It’s all about the commitment phobia because the other side of the coin is more desirable, at least for now. A major personality aspect of people is that they’re always jumping from thing to thing, so the idea of being tied down to one person might feel limiting.
Love hurts but Sex is easy!
That was a decade, when our parents fell in love before or after marriage, and that’s also when they first had sex. And so, this generation has always seen sex as an extension of the love two people have for each other, a consummating act to prove where the loyalties lie. But in the world of Tinder where all are busy swiping right and left, and so love has gone from almost everyone’s life. In this busy lifestyle, work, friends and casual sex is just enough for them because who has got the time for love
As per some magazine:-
Magazine says that it is not the most politically correct thing. A man doesn’t care about your body hair, your tyres, or your chubby arms, tummy when you’re lying there in front of him. When there’s a naked woman in front of a man, he’s unlikely to be focusing on her flaws; he will feel attracted by general over-sexualisation of the female form. So for better or for worse, when every scar and every stretch mark is lovingly caressed by someone, it feels good. If someone else can hurt, then is it really bad that he/she let someone make them feel good?
Is it a Walk of Shame?
Society still thinks that having casual sex is such a terrible thing to do. But ask anyone and you will find that most of them quite like orgasms and don’t see them as abominations. The opinion on one night stand differs from person to person. For a lot of people casual sex is enough to keep them going, and for some it is still a big deal.
In a world where many women live the desire of orgasm that what was portrayed in the movie ‘Lipstick Under My Burkha’, and can testify to the fact about orgasm is a rare occurrence in their lives. Everyone one has their different opinion about it and there’s certainly nothing wrong with it. If you’re not ready for a commitment and you enjoy dating around, then one night stand are okay.
Here are few opinions that we have collected from the people of our generation:
“One night stand states a story of two unknown person who met each other only for their physical need or happiness. It is like an adventure because nobody knows with whom he/she is going to spend his/her private time. They need nothing and no future planning but except a good participation from his/her partner to make the moment awesome. It’s quite good to feel happy and enjoy real happiness of your life”, says
“One night stand for me is just not acceptable. Two strangers meet only for a night. They even don’t know anything about that person like who are he/she? Where do they live and what do they do? Only for some physical need or happiness they spend their some moment with strangers”, says Amit Shukla
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