My Virginity cannot define my Character
Virginity and Character
My Virginity cannot define my Character:- Our virginity cannot define our character because not being a virgin doesn’t mean that the person is characterless. We live in a country, where ethics, morals and religion matters a lot and pre- marital sex is usually considered as an awful act.
We have now entered into the era of 21st century, where one should get liberty to at least take decision on her/his virginity. One should have the right to decide that when they want to lose their virginity and people should stop judging others on their personal choices. Just like food and water, sex is the basic need of person to live a healthy live, and then why having sex is considered a taboo? Why don’t we talk about it openly?
Loosing virginity is never in our hands we are saying so because we wait for the right person, the right time, the right setting and then it’s over. Sure, sex feels amazing. There is no second-guessing in that. So as an adult we should decide whether we want to lose our virginity or not?
Let’s discuss here about the two situations:
If You are A Virgin…
You had rather not talk about it. If your gang is talking about their first times, you will either excuse yourself, or be the one who changes the topic without anyone noticing.
If You are Not A Virgin…
You take pride in the fact that you are the stud of the pack. Once you lose your virginity you will realize the power of love and sex.
Sex is like a hunger, so it’s it important to seek out the gratification. We are living in 21st century and everyone should be allowed to make their personal choices.
We are not justifying any point but we are just saying that virginity cannot decide one’s character, caliber or his/ her talent. Losing virginity doesn’t mean ‘Impurity’; one should just have a pure soul.
Losing Virginity and marriage
In our Indian society it is okay to have sex after marriage but pre- marital sex is considered awful. Still there is no strict law on marital rape in our country, which could be seen in every second marriage but losing virginity with our own consent is “Awful act”. And the person who does this is considered person of bad morals.
What an irony, India has given Kamasutra to the world and here in India, we people feel shy to talk about our feelings, love and desire of having sex.